Better Lovemaking

It is a bit like the world has gone sex mad. I have been working for cheap London escorts for about two years now, and I have noticed that things are getting worse. Everything has to do with sex, and you can’t even get away from sexy advertising before the water shed. It is all a bit strange if you ask me, and I am not sure that I am happy about it all. Many of my colleagues at London escorts feel the same way, and they are beginning to wonder if we are on porn overload.

Porn overload was a phrase first coined in the US, but I think it is applicable here in the UK as well. Lots of the girls at cheap London escorts say that their dates are becoming more and more obsessed by porn. Are we not getting enough or are we getting too much? One of the girls who has worked for London escorts for a long time, did a little survey and found out that her dates watch porn at least once a day. I can understand people thinking about sex, but watching porn once a day seems a bit too much to me. But then again, perhaps it is me who is different.

I do like sex, but I think that we need to move away from sex a little bit because at the moment, sex seems to be selling everything. When I had a day off from London escorts last week, I watched some day time television. It was obvious that the girls were trying to make themselves look really sexy, and it was a bit farcical actually. I did have to have a giggle as even London escorts don’t sit around and show themselves off like that. It just made these presenters look really silly and it annoyed me.

But why are we so fascinated? It is almost like we have just discovered sex, says one of my friends back at London escorts. We are finally coming out in the open about sex, and allowing us to see what it is really like to be sexy. The truth is that we are fascinated and we are sort of learning to be okay with sex. I like to use sex toys, and so do many of my colleagues at London escorts. A few years ago we may not have talked about what sex toys we use, but now we discuss them on a regular basis.

I think it is okay, but by all means we should stay away from porn overload. Little kids who pick up adult comics by mistake must be shocked, and that is just too much. If I had kids while I still worked for cheap London escorts, I would make damn sure that they stayed away from sexy stuff until they were old enough to understand it. Today, I am pretty sure that kids are exposed to sex at a very early age and that just isn’t okay at all. We need to look after the young ones.…

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Passionate lovemaking rather than just the usual sex intercourse makes a contended sex life. Passionate lovemaking is a very important component of adult life relationships and is one of the most difficult to maintain in the long term. Adults don’t understand how to keep passion in their sex as they see it dwindling over time. Some couples are not aware that passion is missing in their relationship, they just know something is wrong; sex without passion is boring and not satisfying. It can’t incite desire and arousal, which leads to sexual boredom. Without passion, sex starts feeling like a duty or obligation, and couples don’t look forward to it and start avoiding one another, instead of looking forward to falling into each other’s arms. Relationships soon erode over time if lack of passion in sex is left unattended. In fact lack of passion in sex is a leading contributor to infidelity since one or both partner is not satisfied, so they look outside their relationship or marriage for satisfaction.

Passion in sex brings couples together and sustains their relationship together emotionally, physically and spiritually. Both partners are happy, contended and satisfied with their relationship and life in general is more fulfilling.

Achieving passion in sex involves more than learning the latest oral sex technique or a wild new sex position. But it is really about what the couples do outside the act of lovemaking such as how you treat your lover, how well you nurture the connection and how much you invest in the relationship. And passionate sex can ease the pressures of daily life and is a powerful way for couples to engage with one another in achieving intimate, deeply satisfying and powerful connection.

Some ways of achieving passion in sex include:

• Having foreplay before intercourse: text each other naughty messages, have seductive phone calls or flirting and teasing throughout the day, leave a romantic note around. This would heighten tensions leading to wild and passionate lovemaking in the evening.

• Mediate about your partner beforehand: meditate about your partner on occasions throughout the day and few moments beforehand, clear the mind of clutter and forgot all other thoughts instead set an intention for a committed, authentic, present connection.

• Breath in sync: lie next to each other face to face and each one breath in sync—as one deeply inhales the other exhales so the same air circulates through each other. This would strengthen emotional engagement and synchronizes rhythm between both partners for a higher physical connection.

• Touch sensitive nerves: touch sensitive nerve areas such as the inner things of one another, adding a little pressure to it by kissing, tracing it to tease and move upwards.…

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